I can kind of relate to this. I was married once before… Horrible mistake. And Five years of my life I will never get back. Well unless the ritual is successful and then…. Well let’s just table that discussion for another day.
I make a lot of comics about marriage, and I can see how someone reading my webcomic would come away with the impression that I’m anti-marriage. I’m not. I’ve been married to my wife for roughly thirteen years and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
If you are considering tying the knot, let ol’ uncle Carter give you some sound advice. Find someone who laughs at your jokes. Even the stupid ones. Find someone who you can have a conversation with. Beauty fades long LONG before your mind goes.
Last bit of advice from a middle age married weirdo. Don’t be a dick… at least not to your spouse. You’ll be surprised how hard that last bit of advice is to keep. But it’s important.